two-s for a bad mood.
First:
I missed a piano performance last night. I deliberately ignored the ticket for I didn't have anyone to go with.
Going alone to such events is just not me.. But I feel really sorry for I missed watching my dear idol Cecile Licad, better luck for me next time.
Second:
That night, went to Palawan 2 bar with Angelo and JV and met new friends there, I was to go for a coffee but we chose to watch the beauty pageant there instead.
The bar was full, good thing we had seats.
Anyway, there's just something wrong with the gay society in the Philippines.
The event was called "Ms.Gay Bi-Palawan" and I was completely against the use of the term bisexual that night as referred to gay guys who, in fact, are not, in any way, into women.
I am gay. I sometimes get offended when people ask me if I'm a "bisexual-gay" because I don't prefer women's clothing.
That's senseless.
It's not politically correct for one to say that a gay guy is not a gay if he does not wear women's clothing, and would come to a conclusion that since he's not into long gowns, then he is a bisexual.
I learned that the candidates are not really transgender guys, rather "are" bisexuals because they have a body of a man and have not had any "breasts".
...and for that, they're already bisexuals.
It's just wrong.
This is what I hate about the gay culture in Manila, wrong use of labels and stereotyping when one shouldn't be doing that.
Some gays in the city don't even know what they're talking about.
There are the comparisons of effeminate guys and bisexuals.. what exactly is a straight-acting?! There's no difference..
When I meet a guy and has this kind of attitude, I get turned-off.
Well, a guy should know exactly what homosexuality is before flaunting that he's a proud gay.
Comments
Hmm.. This won't help your bad mood, but Licad's performance of Rachmaninoff 2 was absolutely great!!!
a bisexual is someone who is attracted to both sexes. they may have a boyfriend and girlfriend at the same time. a bisexual is not someone who also wears women's clothing and men's clothing.
it's a common trend in america and europe; and because manila is a very western influenced city, that is probably what they mean when they ask you that. cross-dressing and bisexuality are two completely different things.